I was talking to a patient today about the upcoming 6 weeks and how hard the Thanksgiving/Christmas combo can be on dieters. I told her that I dreaded January appointments because so many people gain 9-10 lbs over the holidays. Her immediate response – and she didn’t miss a beat, batt an eyelash, or pause to take a breath before she said it- was that she was sure she would gain.
Now wait a minute- if you’re sure you’ll gain weight, then I can assure you that you will. It’s like defeating yourself before you’ve even tried. But it also serves the purpose of excusing a failure before you’ve had the chance to try. So my mistake of the week is this:
THINK YOU’RE GOING SUCCEED, OTHERWISE YOU ARE GUARANTEEING FAILURE!!
Don’t keep repeating the same Eyeore-like mantras to yourself about how you’re never going to lose, you’re never going to be thin, you’ll always just give in to temptation and might as well quit before you’ve even started. Think of yourself as the person you’re going to be – thin and healthy – not as the person who made mistakes and gained weight when they didn’t want to. That thinner person is strong and healthy and happy and isn’t going to let a little creampuff or pumpkin roll or Christmas candy steal away all of their hard work.


17. November 2009 at 9:42 am
I worried so much last holiday season about gaining weight. Thankfully I did not. Betty has a list of things that will help you during the holiday season. It kept me on track. The one thing I did was prepare myself. I asked myself what was going to be on that holiday table that I would not see for the rest of the year and that is what I had my portion of. Don’t deny yourself that favorite holiday food just do so in moderation. Excercise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you put in an extra 200 calories walk and extra 30 minutes.
17. November 2009 at 11:42 am
Amen, Sister!!
It’s okay to enjoy your favorites – just in moderation
Then get out on the track, on the treadmill or on the weight deck and work it off! It’s a good excuse to get away from potentially annoying family, too